They call it “getting lucky” which is exactly what it is.Love Systems is based on watching what the other 1% of guys do, breaking it down into simple steps that everyone can use, and then sharpening it all so it’s much more powerful than what even the best “naturals” do.Repeat after me: I love being around beautiful women. One thing that we see over and over in surveys after someone takes a Love Systems Bootcamp/Day Game Workshop and learns how to qualify women is “now I can finally raise my standards and stop settling”.She doesn’t want to settle either – so don’t make her feel like she’s settling when she meets you. If you see an attractive woman and want to meet her – you’re not the first man to try. Here’s what 99% of men do: Try to get over their approach anxiety and eventually approach the girl.All of the effort she puts in herself has a purpose – to feel good about herself and to be more attractive to men. Sure, a lot of women will SAY that they don’t want to meet guys, or that the constant attention bothers them. But, when you understand female psychology, you learn this is just something women have to say, or they become easy targets for women who are jealous of them. If cultures are different, how can the same overall approach work across cultures? The biological instincts of a young attractive man will be the same in Michigan as they are in Mali or Madras.I get asked all the time questions like “does Love Systems work in [whatever country] or just in the U. ” That’s pretty funny to me because I’m not American and almost no one involved in Love Systems at the beginning was American or living in the U. The real question 10 years ago should have been “OK you crazy guys from the UK, Australia, Germany, etc. Culture will impact what he does with those instincts, but they’re there. A “10” in Hong Kong has much more in common with a “10” in London than she does with a “4” back home. Because if beautiful women tend to have the same biological instincts around the world, then they respond to the same things. Some people out there are making dating MUCH too complicated.
But mostly they make themselves beautiful to feel good about themselves and be more attractive to men – to you. Some guys think that beautiful women come from another planet, or that attracting such a woman is like picking a lock or disarming a bomb.
“Forty percent of the American population is shy,” according to Dr.
Phillip Zimbardo, Director of The Shyness Institute at Stanford University.
(And if you happen to live in any of The 50 Cities with the Best Dating Scenes, these rules are especially applicable.) , a New-York-based relationship and etiquette expert.
“For instance, if you don’t want to date someone who has kids, you’ll save yourself loads of time by simply saying no to anyone who wants to date you and who already has a brood. Forget judgment—just be true to you and you’ll be successful at dating.”“A lot of women who have been dating for a long time arrive to the date with certain assumptions because a man ‘seems’ like someone else they’ve gone out with,” explains Samantha Daniels, relationship expert and founder of , a licensed counselor and consultant.