But despite doing things with other guys that may be mistaken as a date, the MSM say there is no emotional connection during their time together.
It's more of a friendly hangout with the added benefit of sex.'We talk for an hour or so, over coffee …
By only hooking up with macho guys like themselves, the act was deemed OK and much more understood.
Matt (60) explained, 'If they're too flamboyant they just turn me off,' and Jack noted, 'Femininity in a man is a turn off.' Ryan (60) explained, 'I'm not comfortable around femme' and 'masculinity is what attracts me,' while David shared that 'Femme guys don't do anything for me at all, in fact actually I don't care for 'em.' Jon shared, 'I don't really like flamin' queers.' Mike (50) similarly said, 'I don't want the effeminate ones, I want the manly guys …
But University of Oregon sociology doctoral student Tony Silva wanted to dive deeper into communities that often go overlooked when sociologists look into the whole "straight homosexual sex" thing.
After discussing sexual behaviors and interests with 19 straight men who search online via Craigslist for other straight men to have sex with in rural, conservative areas, such as Missouri, Illinois, Oregon, Washington and Idaho, Silva coined the term "bud-sex," according to New York magazine.
However, there's one kind of sexual identity that might have been overlooked: straight men in rural areas who have sex with other men, but don't identify as gay.
then we'll go get a blowjob and then, part our ways,' said test subject Pat. Richard noted, 'Sex is a very small part of our relationship. all sorts of shit.' Likewise, with several of his regulars Billy noted, 'I go on road trips, drink beer, go down to the city [to] look at chicks, go out and eat, shoot pool, I got one friend I hike with.
It normally leads to sex, but we go out and do activities other than we meet and suck.'It's hard to conclude if these men, who claim to be straight or partially bisexual, are being completely honest when discussing their sexualities.
But why limit yourself to those two treats when there are so many others worth trying.
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