If your boyfriend suddenly doesn’t want you to see his phone (including text messages, last calls etc), or doesn’t want to tell you where he is going and what he is doing, the red flag should be up.(Read: )In the best case scenario, he doesn’t love you anymore and doesn’t want to include you in his life.
In the worst case scenario, another woman has already gotten on his radar and that’s why he is being secretive.
Do you feel like your boyfriend’s love is fading away?
In other words, he learned how to act if he wants to get rejected by you and he learned how to act if he wants you to chase him.
Another related sign is checking the relationship status obsessively. For example, he would tell me that he is busy at work, but then his brother would “accidentally” tell me how they went out for drinks together at that exact time. From little plans like going out tomorrow to big plans like moving in together some day, or having 2.4 children.
If your boyfriend suddenly stops making plans with you, or stops talking about the future he sees with you, it’s a bad sign. He told me that in the future he wants to live in a different country, but never mentioned anything about me coming with him.
That is, if we know that we have you, there’s no need to chase.
To build on that, if we feel that you are acting in a way that is intended to make us chase, we’ll remember it. On the other hand, a woman who has a total wall up will not get guys to chase her.