Polyamory Dating In Australia Where does a polycurious or polyamorous person get started if they want to find like-minded people to connect with or a polyamorous relationship in the land down under?The best place to start is to sign up to our poly dating online site, which has many people across Australia seeking the same!Of course, honesty is a risk, because some people will want to date exclusively and stop seeing you because you are seeing other people. I don’t want to be with someone who is ready to forsake all others after one date with me. What you will find when you’re honest about dating others is that it will foster honesty and intimacy in your relationships.♦◊♦Perhaps it is you who doesn’t want to know about your dates’ dating lives.You can go ahead and be in denial, but denial leads to things like STI’s, bad break ups, and unmet expectations and needs. The known is much less scary to humans than the unknown.I explained this to a friend of mine once and she asked me: “Well, isn’t that just called dating?” My answer: “No.”♦◊♦On the surface, dating and solo polyamory look the same: you’re single and seeing multiple people.
The tricky part of the “marriage/couple as the end goal” assumption, is that we automatically put that on the other person and ourselves (and vice versa), and don’t ever communicate our true intentions. Do you tell each of them that you’re having sex with other people and what kind of safer sex practices you use with each person? Monogamous relating fosters a culture of silence around sex. I hate to tell you, but if you are dating/ having sex with multiple people, and don’t talk about it, all these things will likely happen anyway.
The site is not just for polyamorous dating though, it also hosts a community of people who like to socialise and party together and a place to find support in a society which can be hostile to this lifestyle.
Meetup and Facebook are good ports of call, too, with public polyamory groups in most capital cities.
“We should totes be friends, we have so much in common! ”Orgy Threesome Popular shows like have depicted polygamy that involved one man with multiple wives, often with an underlying religious element and in situations in which the women don’t have control or an equal role in the relationships.
On the outside, I look like your typical single, White, female professional.