and it’s Being fun and helping others have fun is a way of keeping dates and potential relationship partners engaged and invested in the relationship.
It’s a vital part of the chemistry that helps ensure that not only will she enjoy the first date but that she’ll be interested in coming back for a second… The worst dates date just drains the life out of everyone involved.
They weren’t “high-status males” with impressive jobs or flashy cars and fancy clothes.
They didn’t have useful contacts for the social climbers or the money for those supposedly hypergamous women looking for the next level. who still managed to date sexy, intelligent, ambitious women. Being fun, being able to help someone enjoy themselves transcended looks and status.
Making you feel good triggers the instincts that tell us that these are people we should like and enforce that feeling with a shot of dopamine.
Fun people are also positive; excessively negative people suck the energy out of the room and kill the mood while positive people help energy.
It’s a very simple premise: we instinctively like people who make us feel good.
The better they make us feel, the more we like them.
of time worrying about being more attractive to women.
Men tend to feel as though they’re at a disadvantage when it comes to dating and consistently look for the magic bullet that will maximize their efforts.