But if you want to leave, let’s leave,’ his girlfriend said.
Often, she would say something she didn’t mean, and Andre took her literally. Some of the women who frequent them are looking specifically for western men and not all of them are looking for a long-term (or honest) relationship.
One of the things he likes about her is that she doesn’t ask dangerous, leading questions such as ‘Who is this girl in your photo?
’ ‘It’s nice, because it means she trusts me,’ he says.
When he tells university girls that he is from Kenya, many of them just remark, ‘Is that in Africa? When they learn that Joshua isn’t from the states, they quickly lose interest.
Marvin, another Jamaican man, met a Japanese woman in the university cafeteria when he was studying in the US. Marvin had to go back to Jamaica after his university course was over. After he said goodbye to her at the airport, he found himself alone.
One day, Andre’s friend shared a photo on Facebook. Apparently, the girl had been spending time with his friend in her home town.
When Andre asked her about it, she admitted that she had kissed his friend.
While this is largely a pleasant experience, Frank sometimes wants her to have opinions. Sometimes, he wants to do something for her, but he doesn’t really know what she wants.
On the other hand, Frank thinks that her non-confrontational, laid-back nature can work well for their relationship.