" I always want to give them my baby daddy's mobile number so they can ask him. Needless to say, almost 10 years and another child later, we got divorced.Why do they assume that I - the woman - must have done something wrong? A guy once asked me: "You got nice boobs and I am assuming that you must have breastfed? So I had to find out if I was simply a magnet for douchebags, or if other single moms are experiencing the same horrors. For a while after the divorce, I was stuck in the stigma of being a divorced single mom.
Cindy says men act like you have to be grateful for their attention: Yes, somehow they treat you as if you are desperate for a man.
I was raising two girls and their father was my first and only boyfriend. I'm a born again Christian, and if I do start dating again, I will not engage in premarital sex.
If a man does not understand/accept that, I won't even consider dating him. The drama was either my ex called too much or he wanted to see our child too much.
What they don't realise is that we are independent and we are not looking for father figures as our children do have father.
We are mainly looking for someone that will love us and will complete our little family, someone who is strong and willing to listen.