It isn’t that transfferable if your careful…and I think most people know and accept that pretty well. If it’s true she has it, it only adds to her beauty as strength is an attractive quality.
I came across this by accident and I am so glad I did…I want to thank all of you for your supportive comments…I feel so much better after reading everyone comment…
i never in a million years thought that herpes could be the culprit.
ignore the very shocking pics on the net, in most cases they are VERY far from the truth. Society seems to poke fun at the disease, but In reality I think most people do that because they are ignorant, and feel like it will never happen to them.
It’s been over 20 years I have not dated…yup very lonely and sad…Honestly, I don’t know how to tell and don’t want to see that look on his face when I say btw I have herpes…
Honestly I am tired of all of the negative stigma attatched to Herpes and HPV as well. about 1 in every 5 people have it or have (or had) some kind of STD. Life goes on, but people who are ignorant about it, make people feel that they’re not worth shit when they try to live a “normal” life.
But the most important thing is accepting that something in ur life has change, but not You. wow having herpes is not fun, people are so quick to judge (i kno cause i was like that before i got it), i just wish there was a way to educat America a little better on ur health issues.
thanks If ure trying to meet sum1 there are websites such as If sum1 likes u, don’t be afraid to open up.
Im not saying go ahead and tell ur business to everyone you feel that ure attracted to, but life is all about risks. Your life is different now, but ure not disgusting because u have it.
I guarantee there will be education about how its NOT a big deal, and how to stay healthy while living with it…. Oh, and to agree with Scott, the only reason i found out i had herpes was from a blood test. and when i say symptoms, i dont mean “sores” (as i have never had one yet!
all you need to do is be happy and you will be fine. I specifically asked to be screened for everything, and that’s what they found. ) i mean just tiredness and muscle pain in the legs…