HOWEVER - I have been a size 14/XL and now I am a size 8-10/M and I get way more attention from men now. I don't think my face looks that different, and yes my slimmer figure is cuter, but its not like I have a "hot body" yet. So what my friends and I have concluded is simply - Men get sh*t for dating heavier women. Once you are not fat and you hang around younger men enough you will invariably hear jokes about drunken hookups with "fat chicks".
It is supposed to be embarrassing to get with a heavier woman because men are so focused on bodies, or at least they are supposed to be.
Men like the large breasts and butts that come with a larger package.
Plus, just because you are heavy doesn't mean you are suddenly not beautiful.
Tuesday, August 29, 2006, PM I think it depends on the guy ! I have atleast 60lbs to loose and I am 50 Can you believe Ive had men hit on me. Beauty is skindeep but ugly is through and through!at 200 lbs, i definitely had dates, and got hit on, and i got a TON of attention at 170 lbs-in fact that's how much i weighed when i met my current boyfriend (almost 3 years ago) and he still thinks i'm hot at 140 lbs!Monday, January 08, 2007, AM the answer is yes, I am not a man.I have always had a weight problem and have never had an issue with men.Even at my biggest men always approached me and they weren't all just black or spanish, they were all types.