Anyone who reads my site for long enough knows I’m a big proponent of the cold approach.
Learning how to approach women, strike up a conversation and charming them into being interested in going on a date with you is a difficult – but important – skill to master.
Who goes from being a stranger to a full-blown creeper in the span of a couple sentences because they won’t take a hint. They will complain that it’s unfair to miss out on missing someone awesome just because some creeper somewhere might have weirded a woman out.
This is one of the reasons why social calibration is one of the most important parts of getting better at dating; recognizing the times when it is and appropriate to approach women is vital – not just to your dating success but to avoiding being creepy by accident.
Approaching women while they’re at work is a rigged game, especially if they’re working in the service industry or any job where a woman has to be “nice” for a living.
Don’t get me wrong; to some guys, the cute barista is more appealing than any other woman on Earth…
well, now she can expect to see him make the first move; the last thing you want to do is cause the woman of your dreams to associate you with other mass transit creepers.
Her options are to get off her stop or hope that he gives up and goes away.For example: one of the most obvious non-verbal signs that a woman wants to be left alone is that she’ll refuse to make eye-contact.Locking eyes is one of the classic approach invitations, so she’ll go out of her way to not meet .A woman who’s interested in being approached, for example, might signal the guy she’s attracted to with the classic “lock eyes, look away, look back” move.But just as women tend to signal their interest with what’re known as “approach invitations”, they’ll also signal that they the same way.