Asian men are either portrayed as celibate, pure, martial arts heroes or one dimensional token minorities.
In China, exes very rarely stay friends, so if you say goodbye, it’s probably for good.
Many Western women have experienced confusion over Chinese guys carrying their bags for them, insisting on paying for everything and taking them shopping even if her income far outstrips his.
Texts and phone calls offering advice such as "wear more clothes" and "don't come home too late" are fairly routine.
It’s important to remember that ideas about dating are totally different in China.
In the West, dating is seen as something you can do casually (at least in the beginning).