I’m not looking for that and when that starts coming up, I scale my presence in her life back considerably – I don’t want things to turn into a relationship and therefore I withdraw. I’ve pushed her away and now I’m going to lose her. my goal being that I’d like to return to “stasis” – that perfect sweet spot of comfortable company and sexual satisfaction without having to tie myself down to any relationship.Then, inevitably, the girl starts to get upset, frustrated, confused, etc. My point here: My goal is to maintain the stage before exclusivity and relationship happens. I’m clear on this and it’s practical for where I am in my life right now.If both of you like the same movies or shows, both of you will have a lot of opinions and things to talk about for hours on end.[Read: 6 naughty texting games to have fun all night] #5 Talk about your secrets. Do you have a few secrets that you don’t generally tell everyone you meet? It’ll flatter her and make her see that you trust her enough to share your deep secrets with her.
Talking about movies and shows on the television can be great gossip too.And beyond that, if both of you do share common hobbies, both of you will be able to bond better with each other.And if you do meet her friends or family sometime, you’d know everything about them which will help you make all the right conversations with them and charm them in the very first conversation!And before you know it, she’ll start sharing her secrets with you, and become much more intimate with you. Childhood memories are always fun to talk about and to listen, especially if it involves an embarrassing or funny incident.Talk about your first crush, your good looking teacher, the first time you got drunk or the time you did something silly.