But, for over seven years now things just haven’t felt right.
Emotionally and physically my wife is, most the time, very distant and cold.
So, I’ve been married to my High School sweet heart for about 17 years now, and been together for nearly 21 years.
We both have good careers and we have 4 wonderful children.
On the surface everyone sees us as the happy, completely in love couple.
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I’ve written letters, sat down and talked to her, I’ve cried, and I’ve even fought with her over this. She makes partial efforts for a week or two then back to normal.
Things such as a random hug or kiss, the random cuddle while sitting on the couch, these are all missing in our marriage unless I initiate. She was very affectionate and, although sexually shy, I still knew she desired me and felt passionate toward me.
Then we had a weird/sad breakup that lasted about a year.
We broke up and got back together a bunch of times, so I didn’t tell anyone we broke up until recently.