Pick an activity where you won’t have to talk the entire time, like a movie or a sporting event, Kalish says. “The longer you go,” Kalish says, “the more problems you run into.” It should be a no-brainer to avoid thumbing your smartphone during the date. You miss out on the body language and facial cues that will give you a better idea of how she really feels.
If you’re not a talker, think up a list of possible topics -- TV shows, music, school -- before the date, Piorkowski says. “With texting and email, all you get is words,” Piorkowski says.
You may not be 6ft tall with a 6-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you. Don’t do all the talking On your date, make sure you don’t do all the talking.
Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance.Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions.Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say. Keep the conversation fun Try to keep your conversation light-hearted.Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun. Avoid the ‘ex’ conversation Talking about your ex is dangerous territory.It’s best to stay away from the conversation altogether.