I agree with many of the things you say are wrong between the relationships between men and women.
And if you’re going to do more than lay around in bed with this person, you’d might want to go easy on the seduction moves at first.
There might have been a disconnect on those terms in my previous marriage. I know that I feel deeply and I enjoy being expressive of those feelings.
If feelings scare you, that might be something for you to look at.
(Red Flags, we like to call them.) As we navigate “dating” again, we quickly realise the rules are very different.
Our experience gives us some distinct advantages in terms of recognising what we don’t want.