Seek dating advice from a mature Christian you respect.Chances are there is someone—a pastor, mentor, teacher—whose perspectives and opinions you hold in high regard.At Focus on the Family, we've offered a range of resources and expert advice bringing biblical principles to bear in this area.Some of the messages we've presented have taken the position that Christians can apply their faith in such a way that they can still work within the system they've inherited.The topics he's going to be dealing with are ones in which equally committed Christians have found different biblical interpretations.
Again, it was Solomon who said, “He who walks with the wise grows wise” (Proverbs ).
You've done it, you're doing it, you'd like to do it, or you need to teach somebody else how to do it. It is considered the natural precursor to marriage, and is generally considered something to be desired, whatever form it might take. If you were to Google the word "matchmaker," you would receive something in the neighborhood of 21,200,000 responses — with a few of these outfits claiming to be Christian, but most making no such claim. As evangelical Christians, we're called to be distinct in the ways we think and act about all issues that confront us and those around us. Granted, not all of these people are evangelicals, but we're not doing so well either.
Indeed, the central issue we need to confront — and the reason I write and speak on this topic — is that when it comes to dating and relationships, perhaps more than in any other area of the everyday Christian life, the church is largely indistinguishable from the world.
There’s a broad spectrum of what it means for people to call themselves a Christian—from very liberal to very conservative and everything in between.
Just because a woman calls herself a Christian doesn’t mean her beliefs or lifestyle choices are the same as mine.”Define your standards in advance. Some Christian singles are reluctant to voice their convictions for fear of being labeled “old-fashioned” or “narrow-minded.” But it’s best to be up-front about what is and is not acceptable to you.