If you’re seeking her approval with, “Please let me know when you’re around.” “Did you get my last text? So rather than take the risk of screwing things up by asking her out, you just continue chatting with her.
Because if you invite her to do something and she says no, then you might lose that sweet, sweet attention. It’s not going to move a connection forward or towards intimacy.
You do that by having a couple lighthearted, silly, or playful messages to get a laugh.
Once that’s been established, you need to push forward. Most women are in the “buying” mood while on the app and will make plans with a guy then and there.
By swiping yes to each other, you both already accept you find each other attractive.
New rule: “I will suggest meeting up with a girl within our first or second text exchange.” A lot of guys think they need to a woman to meet up with them from online dating.Delaying your responses for hours or days does not make you more attractive. New rule: “I will respond within 4 hours of getting a text from a girl.” Having a new girl respond over text feels great.You’re actually being MORE NEEDY by faking disinterest just to get someone to like you. And sometimes, you just want to hold onto that wonderful feeling.Every time you don’t follow up on a number, you’re throwing away your best shots for romance.New rule: “Whenever I get a girl’s number, I will message her within 24 hours.” Insecure guys feel the need to prove their worth to women. By being cold over text, women believe you’re not really interested.