So how can I work on my accommodating skills to where I dont come off as a spineless pushover?And how do I try to take charge without taking control?Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
One thing I've done to circumvent the whole "I don't know what I want to do, what do you want to do" conundrum is to constantly be on the lookout for date activities/venues that appeal to a large variety of people. Be certain that your laid-back-edness isn't mistaken for a lazy/uncaring attitude towards how you spend time with a significant other."It doesn't matter" and "I don't care" are not words a woman is usually receptive to hearing when it comes to how you spend your time with her.When I care about what I'm doing, I don't do those things with other people.Anyone who has confused my not caring about things I consider to be inconsequental with me not caring about anything has gotten a rude awakening.It helps to do this before even dating someone, so I always have a few in my back pocket for precisely when this situation comes up. Mrs FUh Landra, it;s not necessarily about being passive.Usually these places/activities take the form of places and things I'd love to do, but I don't want to go by myself, like amusement parks or trendy restaurants. I do care about what I do or don't do, however, when I do things with other people, what I care about is who I'm with.