Emotionally avoidant men are more likely to commit infidelity as a means of avoiding emotional intimacy.
If he can’t open up to you or is emotionally distant, he’s probably a bad boy.
He’s likely to cheat and have a long list of exes because he only accepts perfection.
He’ll probably be single or cheating for the rest of his life.
Yes, it’s nice when men treat you on a date, but if he can’t stop talking or flaunting his money and his fancy car, he’s probably trying to make up for the many other areas he falls short in.
In my work as a relationship coach and blogger, I hear it over and over again — yet, at some level, it still takes me by surprise — "Why do so many really smart, accomplished and attractive women go for 'bad boys' or Alpha males?Your beliefs, habits and behaviors have a huge influence on the response you're getting in your relationships and results, don't lie.This whole idea of a woman looking for an "alpha male" to drop her back into feminine may be the worst idea ever made by so many incredibly "otherwise" intelligent and very desirable women. Because it pre-supposes you need someone else to drop you back into feminine, when the truth is once you address those old, outdated and ineffective assumptions that aren't working, reconnecting with your femininity is as easy as simply "going home." Plus, if you think you can somehow magically change an Alpha when he's been so rewarded for his behavior everywhere else, there may be some deluded thinking you may want to examine.The downside of the Alpha is he can sometimes be self-obsessed, insensitive, jealous, controlling, perhaps even demeaning or violent in extreme cases.The downside for those who are in relationships with that type of guy is that he is often unfaithful because so many women respond primitively to his darker, masculine energy that he has more choices available to him.